(name withheld) "Hello Missy. I would like to ask you something if I may. But first I will say a bit about me. I am a virgin in my 20s, been single most of my adult life. To me, the most important thing about sex is my partner. Make sure she enjoys it and feels comfortable around me. What I want to ask though is what specifically is good about a male having an orgasm to you. Can you describe any specific positive feelings as a result of this, be it physical or mental. Sex is something I think about but not really talk about to people and this has been a long time curiosity."