Frankly I am appalled and with your permission would like to write a letter of complaint to Paypal. How very dare they judge your project as unworthy of payment.
I struggle to understand the thinking. Your vids are not pornographic by any means of the word. There is no exploitation going on, and not much more than occasional nudity and a little bit of a 'hand party' now and then. The narrative is personal enough for us to see into your world, and it is this achingly honest syntax which draws in the emotional and the curious in equal measures.
Best wishes as always,